I lived for many years in an Indian Tantric monastery where the sexual component was integral to the daily practice of spiritual learning. Once back in the West, I missed that direct energy exchange and atmosphere of intimacy. I searched for it and found it in the swinger environment, even if this is lacking a meditative attitude. However, the swinger environment has its own rules, many of which couple perfectly with the principles of conduct of classical Tantrism, with some exceptions, for example, the one regarding the approach procedure, which in this scenario contemplates the possibility of choice. However, I like the sense of freedom and sharing, the joy that transpires in most cases, and the attitude of possible continuous contact, which do not apply in Tantrism, predominantly considering a single meeting. In this writing, I have collected several manners suggestions from both situations, which contribute to the neophyte a winning approach strategy in an environment where everything seems too simple but which is instead highly selective for the sake and flawless reputation of the whole community involved.
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