This book will serve as an "honest" guide to help any young Black female survive the "gauntlet" of high school to young adulthood with her heart and dignity intact, if she has the discipline to follow my instructions. This guide also will assist "feminine" older African/Black American /Latino woman who are focused; while contemplating which type of guy she should choose to date. This book is based on "street psychology" and understanding of my group, considering my 35+ years of experience, research, and personal development, which I'm using to help Sistas procure a decent man! Other women will win on some level also if they choose to listen. Some principals are universal. We are living in very difficult times right now, so there is "no time" for foolish pride to gamble your future with a decent Black man. You can't rely on your single or married immature girlfriends to give you good advice when they are also drowning emotionally in bad relationships with those of the opposite sex! If you don't plan on living alone with pets or with women the rest of your life; you need guidance from those very ones you seek, MEN. You need a Man's perspective who truly understands what it takes to gain one of us for the long-term in marriage. This is the reason for this book.
